I wrote this out in response to someone who said "I have concerns about Self ID". And I feel like it's wasted if only they see it
"For sure. I don't think you're a bigot
I find this a very difficult and frustrating conversation to have because it's hard to describe what's...
going on without people getting upset. This issue is that some actual bigots have come up with a good way to sell what they want in a reasonable package, and people have bought into it. So many people say "I have concerns with Self ID" and I have to work through so much to...
even know what that even means. Are you opposed to trans people being able to update their legal documents like passport and driving licence without a medical diagnosis? Well we've had that for over a decade. What about trans people being able to choose which facility best...
reflects them with or without updated ID? Well we've had that for 10 years this year. What about trans people being able to get married and have a worthwhile marriage certificate without a medical diagnosis? Well we don't have that yet. That's part of the GRA reform. There are...
a few people who know that and oppose that for whatever reason. But often they've been told that TRAs want to pass a law that will allow a man in a dress to watch you get changed. That just isn't on the table, either the laws we already have allow that and it doesn't...
happen, or it's just made up. So where do I go with this? How can I point out that the people selling this ARE transphobic? They don't care what laws we have today. They don't care that the stuff they're saying as a result of GRA reform hasn't been happening for the last 10...
years and isn't related to GRA reform. But then as soon as I say transphobia everyone stops listening. Because as well as selling this general opposition to trans people, they've sold the concept that everyone who points out transphobia is a liar"
They replied with "let's agree to disagree". I politely request you don't go find them, it won't help
This is why trans people don't want to talk about these things. Most people don't care about learning or anything, they just want to be heard. Waste of life